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I think I’ve found my favourite autistic character and he went under my radar until now. I think I had to fully unmask to see him clearly, understand myself to understand him.


What I love about him is that his reactions are reactions. His traits and emotional state fluid. His understanding of numbers is unmatched, but, understanding people and relationships, a work in progress.


A caterpillar turned into a butterfly through a journey travelled, weaved in throughout the entire show. A thread that may be easily missed.


He has a logical mind but is seen as eccentric at best for a good part of the show as a whole. He seems irrational at times and can go from sitting quietly behind his desk to a rage he can’t hold back. His relationship with his wife is unique but works for them. A safe space where he can be built up, or crumble if needed. Strong ethics and values and his firm is his family to him, he loves the law but his friends and family equally. Procedure and rules are easier for him, information over personal perspective.


When he feels attacked he becomes very defensive, or deeply protective (of himself and others). However, when positives are found he is on top of the world, compassionate and giving.

He struggles, his mask is conditional to memories and trust. He is a brilliant character and in my own, personal opinion, a pretty well balanced autistic character.


“Give me a mountain..., I’ll climb it. Give me a Katy Perry song I’ll sing it.”


“Now let’s go tell these assholes if they think they are going to rip our nipples off without a fight, they got another thing coming.”


“This is about my honour!”


Rick Hoffman thank you for..., autistic or not... a very authentic character.


I love Suits and thank you for such skilled acting in your portrayal of Louis Litt. In my opinion Suits had the best ending of any show I have seen, so heartfelt and genuine.


All my best and love

Ross


Words – Ross A Fraser

Graphic Design App – Canva

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Isolation feels like invisible fingers,

A grip so tight,

It takes your very breath,

As loneliness wraps round your neck.

Same scene a constant,

Windows just provide a bitter reminder,

Life is there,

Just beyond the walls.

Like the day after the fight,

Body heavy and discomforting,

The physical demands,

Put on to crumbling stone.

Pain on a scale,

So how does it feel,

Like my life was a car,

And I’m the wheel...

People live with pain every day.

Living, with pain, that is so much harder.

All my best and love

Ross

Words – Ross A Fraser

Graphic Design App – Canva


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Victoria’s Secret


Ross Fraser

I heard this for the first time coming from my daughter’s room. Megan is ten and has already struggled with body issues because of bullying at school. I was really annoyed because this frame of the “perfect body” is basically nothing but a sales pitch.


When my daughter was eight she was watching The Pussycat Dolls on X-Factor (or something like that) with her mum. She asked a question that made me so proud, “Why do girls have to dance around and sing in their underwear but boys don’t”. I saw the injustice too but definitely hadn’t realised the extent at the time. So a song telling girls very directly don’t listen to the perception. That bodies are different and you should love you for you. Deepest and utmost respect Jax and from my daughter who is a big fan, thank you for being so cool and honest.


Jeni Curtis

I'm fascinated with the human body and the way it moves. No two people are exactly alike. Even twins have subtle differences. The body itself is art and the way we move is a dance. Size, shape and color only add to a person's beauty.


For me what truly matters and what makes a person attractive is the mind. Clothing should be a reflection of your personality not a way to highlight the shallow "goods" underneath.


Thank you Jax for this catchy song and the message behind it.


All our best and love

Ross and Jeni


Words – Ross A Fraser and Jeni Curtis

Graphic Design App - Canva


Victoria's Secret by Jax - youtu.be/XztzFXMy6hA

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