Autistic burnout is an experience that autistic people can go through throughout their lives and it can be devastating. It affects every aspect of the individual’s psychological, physical and emotional condition and can lead to an extreme state of crisis. Autistic burnout is not the same as neurotypical burnout, which is usually caused by working or studying too hard. Whilst in a state of burnout, an autistic person may find it very hard to express and describe what they are

Let me entertain you by Robbie Williams Let me educate you (autistic community version) Hell is where I used to live Felt like I’d nothing left to give Silent battles in my head They’d scream I’m done losing me Or everything I used to be When all I need empathy, you see So come on let me educate you Let me educate you Life’s too short for you to hide So many thoughts left inside Drowned by tears I used to cry You see Hearing all my words are wrong But I just sing a different

When I began posting online I had a misunderstanding. Repeating words from Scrubs, a Disney TV show, when scripting. This is what led to my friend realising that I needed to be taught how to have a conversation and other things about the world I was unaware of. I have mentioned that there was a misunderstanding at the start, but not the cost of it. I didn’t understand what was happening or why. Really didn’t have a clue. I’ll be honest I was ready to hide away from people aga

I struggle with the winter months for many reasons. One of the main ones is because of burnout. With me it’s like draining a battery. Mental and physical exertion reduce energy levels which can result in burnout. Pain (and illness) can cycle burnout so that’s something that needs to be accounted for often. I will admit I am pretty new to the whole trying to rest thing. However I am seeing why it is so essential. Last year I worked through the burnout more often than not. Howe

I masked due to a trauma event aged 4. At age 12 I began scripting permanently, which wouldn't change for 30 years. When I was 13 I woke on a camping trip to realise my sleeping bag had been set on fire as I slept. I hid away from society and people for three decades because of that. The world and people felt too unsafe to even be around so I hid myself away. I've had a very isolated life and needed to be taught how to have a conversation at 42. I started mylifeautistic on th

Lilo and Stitch (Reposting from 21st January 2022) I have shown and talked about my interest in Lilo and Stitch, but given that I see the world differently, I thought it would be a good idea to go through what I see in the movie. The first thing that stood out was the first scene. Stitch is a genetically modified alien and created against galactic law. He is called an abomination for just being him, much like a child someone else created him, he didn’t choose to exist. This i

I must admit I’m disappointed to say that I don’t think I’m going to be able to get to Maryculter House to do a live before the end of the month. I was hoping to go today but the pains making it impossible. I was ready to leave but the pain was too intense. I very much doubt I would have been able to do a video had I gone. One of the toughest challenges is knowing when to tap out. I’m too used to fighting, however I know to continue working I have to be a lot more careful now

Mylifeautistic Advent Calendar Day 25 Taychreggan is situated to allow you to make the very most of this unique area with an abundance of lochs and mountains on their doorstep. Nestled within its very own bay looking down Loch Awe. It is also within an easy drive of Glencoe and Glen Etive via the spectacular Glen Orchy. Close to Oban, the ferry gateway to Western Isles of Mull and Iona. They are the ideal place in which to enjoy the very best of this beautiful corner of the W

Mylifeautistic Advent Calendar Day 24 Blackaddie Country House is an award winning hotel and Restaurant. Set on the banks of the beautiful river Nith in the idyllic countryside of Dumfries & Galloway. From the moment you turn onto the private driveway of this 16th century country house you can tell you are somewhere very special. The warm, relaxed atmosphere, luxurious rooms and delicious food make Blackaddie the ideal destination for a special occasion, a romantic break or a

Mylifeautistic Advent Calendar Day 23 Plas Nanteos Mansion is a quintessential Grade 1 Georgian Mansion nestled within 35 acres of grounds and offering 22 luxury ensuite bedrooms along with the private 4 bedroomed self-catering Mews House. Nanteos offers a home from home for all guests in a quiet, tranquil location just 3 miles from the coastal town of Aberystwyth. Dogs are welcome too! The recently reopened Nightingale Restaurant offers a Bistro style menu daily (excluding S

Mylifeautistic Advent Calendar Day 22 Higher Lank Farms has specialised in holidays for families with children up to the age of 12 since 1999. They have two self-catering cottages one sleeping 2 adults and up to 4 children and one sleeping 4 adults and up to 4 children. Both are fully equipped with everything you need when holidaying with a young family. This peaceful location has chickens, ducks, geese with eggs to collect, goats, pigs and orphan lambs to bottle feed. Lucy,

mylifeautistic advent calendar Day 21 You have no idea how happy I was to get this location for the advent calendar. Day 21 is Sheldon’s spot ... in a bed and breakfast. A place where autistic people are, and always have been welcome. They have a superb reputation for being autism friendly. The owners have a background as childcare practitioners, working with SEN children and helped diagnosed a few along the way. They understand us, as well as the needs of caregivers, The Sh

mylifeautistic advent calendar Day 20 Hoe Grange holidays is set on a working farm in the Derbyshire Peak District with 4 family-sized log cabins with enhanced access facilities. Owners David and Felicity Brown live on-site and are there to help make sure your holiday goes as smoothly as possible and can arrange the accommodation to fit in within your personal requirements. Guests can meet some of the farm animals, such as the adorable pygmy goats, free-range chickens, horses

mylifeautistic advent calendar Day 19 Bridge is played on Monday to Thursday evenings throughout the year starting at 7.00 pm. District League & Cup team events take place on Friday evenings from October to April. With other events being held on Saturdays and Sundays during the winter. The club is always open to all new members and visitors are warmly welcomed to play as guests. The Club is affiliated to the Scottish Bridge Union and Master Points are issued for all evening s

mylifeautistic advent calendar Day 18 They are what you think is a small rugby union team, however they have teams from U5 through to the Colts, 3 girls teams U12s U14s and U16s, a senior ladies team and 2 men’s senior teams. They are very big on inclusivity. They have even made it possible to have a quiet room for any one who needs a quiet place. There are many players who benefit from such an inclusive club, and it is forever growing, with the recent introduction of a Didi

mylifeautistic advent calendar Day 17 “You’re beautiful, it’s true” We have somewhere really special today, I will admit I’m honestly stunned and really grateful. The Fox and Pheasant is a little country pub located in a small corner of Chelsea. The pub was founded in 1846 and it began its life as the Bedford Arms. Ten years later it changed to the Prince of Wales and in 1965 became The Fox & Pheasant and they have no intention of changing its name again! They are a snug pub,

mylifeautistic advent calendar Day 16 Today we have a bit of a bonus. Not only do we have a location willing to show support for the autistic community but one who is preparing for an upcoming fundraiser for an amazing charity. The Carriers Arms is run by husband and wife duo Karen and David. It is quaint, family run village tavern in rural Wiltshire, renewed for its excellent food, guest rooms and local ale, some of which is brewed on site. Before their venture into hospital

Mylifeautistic advent calendar Day 15 Holiday’s can be exciting, but it can also be incredibly stressful. Anxiety can be common during and after traveling, because of change of routine, sensory issues and a lot more. When it comes to accommodation, there are a number of properties that have experience supporting the community and have additional facilities to help make your holiday as stress free as possible. For day 15 we have Birchcroft-Hideaway in Dorset. They understand t

Mylifeautistic advent calendar Day 14 Milnrow Cricket Club was founded in 1857 and plays all home matches at Ladyhouse. They are always on the lookout for keen cricketers, no matter your age or how good you are. They are a fully inclusive club which promotes good sportsmanship throughout. They train every Tuesday and Thursday in summer (senior teams) and junior training is on Friday evenings. This fantastic cricket club is located at the foot of the Pennines in the picturesqu

Mylifeautistic advent calendar Day 13 I wanted to show that the world is changing. People are starting to understand autism in a different way. That there are actually lots of people behind our community. That a New Life Autistic is possible. I really appreciate hotels getting involved in the advent calendar. It shows not only support for the community but helps identify adaptive accommodation. As well as organisations that recognise that autistic people may need different co