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Updated: Mar 13

I am going to start this post with the image description, as it’s required to explain this post. In the image is a piece of lined paper with a pen at the bottom. Four of the lines have been highlighted and numbered (1 to 4), with the words “MY NAME” in the middle. The top three rows are used for vowels and the bottom three for consonants.

I stated before that my ability to read and write was so limited, that I had to learn again from scratch aged 32-35. What I haven’t done is explain how I learned to read and write. I went to the library to take out loads of picture books. I would then copy the text over on to lined paper, but written in the format above. What this does is it visually separates the consonants and the vowels. Dyslexic people can go off pattern recognition, the words shape, rather than the individual letters. Plus some letters/numbers can look like others which doesn’t always help. For example, Q, O and 0, or b, p, and d, which is the same symbol, but just in different positions.

What the format above does, is to adjust for the way our minds can read the words. It breaks up the consonants and vowels, in a way that can be quicker and easier to read. Plus it’s a technique that doesn’t take long to pick up and apply. Vowels go at the top ¾ of the line, consonants go at the bottom ¾. I used four lines in this image for clarity. Personally I found that this was a lot more effective, and it made reading and writing, not only quicker, but clearer too because I wasn’t missing words.

All our best and love

Ross Fraser and Jeni Dern

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Written by – Ross Fraser

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Winter to me is six or seven months. It begins in August and if I am lucky it ends in March or April. It doesn’t mean that the pain goes away in the warmer months, just that it becomes more predictable. It also means a reduction in the amount of time that I’m losing consciousness. Frankly I am looking forward to that by now. Having a hypersensitive condition means that everything has to be taken into account. This is what keeps me housebound/bedbound, it’s impossible to predict everything. 


I try to keep on top of the pain as much as I can. However it’s a battle each day, and there are many days that the pain wins. We managed to get into Aberdeen recently to order a rise and recline chair on finance. I have suspected for some time that I probably need one. My wife and I realised with sensory processing heightened and comfort being a high priority, I had to try the chairs before buying. We ordered chairs (desk and recliner) when we moved in here and it was a costly failure as neither one was actually suitable. We eventually found one that works, but unfortunately it's a bit of a wait as it wasn’t available until mid-may.  


On a positive note, I have managed to stop smoking, something I’ve been trying to do for some time (a couple of years at least).

We are going to be putting some of the money towards getting some art materials, and the chair. In time we will get a corner desk and desk chair for the bedroom too. In the meantime I am playing a load of videogames (so there may be some videos posted in the near future) and waiting for better (and warmer) days.


All our best and love

Ross Fraser and Jeni Dern

Mylifeautistic 

Written by – Ross Fraser 

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Image description: A stylised and minimalistic design showing a woman's face side on with an infinity symbol representing her hair. Text: International Women's Day, Inclusion, Representation, Respect.


All our best and love

Jeni Dern and Ross Fraser


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